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bebop said:
go to his family on the way back. maybe that way the idiot cousin will be gone already.
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It's at the idiot cousin's house.

But I appreciate the suggestion.
Normally we do Thanksgiving on our own with neither family. However, this year I decided to join my family because my grandmothers are getting up in age (88 and 89) and one isn't in the best of health.