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Originally Posted by Molinit
If you have a child on the way, you don't need to worry about "motivating" him. Are either one of you working?
Your time will soon be taken up with the baby, so I'd let him figure his own stuff out. I happened to read your profile, you are 21 and have been with him for 4 years. And he's bipolar not on medication? Not sounding too promising already.
Stop worrying about him, get your own stuff in order because you will have someone totally dependent on you soon.
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He was on medicine but he's bad at keeping up with it, the doctor prescribed something for mood swings. Not necessarily bipolar. But even before we had the kid on the way he always told me he wished that I would be able to help him get out of his bad moods and tell him it'll be OK and to help come up with solutions. And I thought I was doing better by telling him I understand and all that but he still doesn't think it helps and it hurts because like I've tried everything and I want to be able to be that girlfriend that can lift him up when he's feeling bad