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Originally Posted by RichardBrooks
And this is the problem. I do not pick up on non-verbal... anything. Why does it have to be non-verbal? Why can't people talk? Isn't this what is supposed to set us apart form the rest of the animal kingdom?
And as for "hard and fast rules" about friendship... believe me, there are rules. They are unwritten, and no one will tell you what they are or even admit to there being rules. But those of us who apparently can't help but break the rules (rules we don't know and no one will tell us) definitely know there are rules.
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Here is an article I found on non-verbal signs of flirting:
10 Signs of Flirting You Need to Be Aware Of
They may not come instinctively to you but perhaps if you read up on the subject it may help you realise when someone is flirting with you. Of course it's not an exact science but if a woman is doing these things a lot around you then the chances are strong she is interested.
Why do people not talk to communicate attraction? Interesting question. Maybe because when we are in 'mating' mode we are more in tune with our animal side.