The problem with finding a counselor is she is Asian (Chinese) and understands well but does not speak English too well. The nuance of call it "psychological" language is lost between the two languages. Mandarin is actually is a very primitive language and though it has many "words" they are really a composition of "radicals" that form words. It is the most difficult language to learn for an English speaker, but English is the hardest language to learn overall.

And there is what she perceives as a different culture when actually there is little difference.

I have found one interpreter who is willing to try. He has helped others before. He is trained in social work. I hope he can reach her.

She never calls when she is staying elsewhere.(It's a long trip home after working late.) Worries me sick. The relationships in every culture have the habit of letting the other partner know where they are when separated.

I am just hoping for the best, and that the drugs do their job. Thanks for your response. It was kind of you.