Hi,

Well lets start off saying I work in a big office, cubicle based etc. I have been working with this girl for about a year, no problem you know we kept it at a work relationship.

Now after the last Christmas vacation, things got a little odd. She gets in at work, we talk a bit bout the vacation, she says everything is ok but being with her everyday I could see something was wrong.

So when I told her something was bothering her she awknoledge but said it was too much and to talk about it but she really didnt know how to deal with it.
So after a while I told her listen you dont have to tell me but I think I know what happend. Basically at the new years party, one of the friend wished her happy new year while gently grabing her *** in the meantime. And she kinda liked it.

Now shes 32, been with her man for 11 years, 2 kids.

So I told her look, it was a party, if thats the only thing that happend, not a big deal, forget about it and go on. Problem is the men in question is her men friend, and they often do couple outing togheter. After that the guy was pushing her on facebook on howmuch he would like to have her naked with him etc.

So I kinda tried to steered on on the right path, I said just let him you dont like the way he talked to you, and if it dosnt stop well, tell your man.

So after that, a confidence relationship was kinda created, she would talk to me about how she would have bad evening at home, either her man wouldnt take care of her or he was too busy on the computer or on the phone etc.

I also came to know more about her, that she was more "sexy and dirty" then I taught at first, I started noticing how she dressed etc.

We got moved into a seperate office, same work but in a secluded office, we got nicknames flowing sometime, I would compliment her on her look.

We now talk on occasion on FB or snapchat on the evenings when her man is working.

Things got a little out of hand a night when she bought a Lace kit from Vic Secret. She showed me on the website which thats not a big deal.

One night she wanted to take pictures to send to her man so I said if you want a second opinion, shoot me a picture or two. And,, she did.

From that moment, it goes about the same at work, she was a little shy the next morning but I told her not to worry that she was beautiful and that I wouldnt talk back about it unless she brings it up.

Since that time I have some pretty strong feeling when shes around, I found myself bitting my lips somethimes if she comes too close etc.

We go out to lunch sometimes, the other day she had a ruff night, before she left the day after I took her in my arms, kissed her on the cheek and wished her a great evening.

Now tonight they had a supper with the other couple, she wanted to wear a nice dress, she snapped me a pic or 2 , this time i didnt ask.

I dont know if I actully falling in love, how to tell?
Why did she sent those pictures, i know she is shy, and I ask but i mean at the end she chose to send them.

Anyway, ever been in a similar situation ??