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Fijisland - if you are unable to provide for yourself, that is what disability assistance is for. Your assistance should be enough to move out and live on your own. The amount you are awarded to receive takes that into account - as does mine. I don't live in luxury but I live on my own - you ought to be doing so too. My question then is why do you feel you can't?

I feel very strongly about this, as you can tell. I really don't see the cause for complaining when a solution is immediately at hand. You live with your parents because it is convenient. Recognise you have the power to change your situation.

If you choose to still live with your parents, you must accept then their rules. It is your obligation.

I do in fact recognise the difficulty of living under a berating, bullying, life sucking relationship but my point is you need not live this way.

Am I to understand your children also reside with your parents? Put yourself in their shoes and consider what they are going through. I'm pretty sure they didn't anticipate being parents at this time of their lives.