I'm definitely at fault for my part of mistakes..I just broke her trust for me and I feel she is doing this to show me she can do it herself without me. Her mom told me this morning that she told her this morning that she still loves me but doesn't want to go back to the way it was. I admit I could have been a better husband to her. Her mom said to give her space and stop being pushy cause it's pushing her away and it's making me seem obsessed, needy and controlling. I'm going to start with the 180 and not talk, but we have 2 kids which makes the no contact difficult. I want her to miss me...additionally, after going through my stuff she packed, I found the Bear and Message in a bottle that I sent her while I was deployed. That really hurt to see that and as if it didn't mean anything