Hello again Zedsdead. No it isn't asking too much at all for him to call if going to be late or out all night,most men wouldn't hesitate to call their partner.The thing about narcissists though is they are very controlling themselves and love nothing more than to upset and frustrate the people they accuse of controlling them.They are the controlling ones and if they can make you worried and upset they love it,it satisfies their nasty and selfish streaks and they are getting the most pleasure from causing significant others pain and frustration cos they are on top of everything else sadists.