I am so sorry! I just got divorce papers after 41 years of marriage. Family Court moves very slowly, and the sooner you file for dissolution, the sooner you'll get temporary support ( takes about 100 days.) my husband is retiring, so I won't get any spousal support ( called "maintenance" in this state). I will get 1/2 of his pensions, and I have an IRA as well. I have 2 grown children who have been an amazing support. We were all shocked by this. He said "I just want to have fun."

Well, I love to have fun; so issue must be another woman. No worries... I have a great life!