Yes! It makes perfect sense.

Anger is a protective emotion. It stands in front of hurt and vulnerability to ensure they come to no further harm.
Just imagine the emotions of Hurt and Vulnerability as children. If it is not safe for them to Be themselves (that is, feeling the reality of those emotions would expose them to potential further harm) then Anger sweeps in to stand in front of them and protect them from all possibilities. No harm can come to them when Anger is 'on the case'.

And then there is Detachment. Detachment strides in as a sense of numbness and non-caring. Detachment has no connection to anyone. She needs care from no-one, so can never be hurt if a person acts or makes a choice that might infer a lack of care or consideration for her. She needs no-one. She expects nothing. She is an island. She wraps herself in a cloak of protective numbness, where she feels no pain of rejection, but can feel no joy either.

It seems like the things going on at the moment are hurting you. You have strong protections in place that leap up to defend you without even being asked.
They do their jobs well. Sometimes it is actually safe enough to let them 'stand down', too.

NB: this is kind of how things like that happen in me. It may not be relevant at all for you. Just sharing my thoughts.