I too want my parents to go on to their peaceful resting place and stop causing all the horror and chaos in my life. Fortunately I do not have to live with them but when I do have to be with them I use my coping mechanism from childhood of dissociation which is not always appropriate. I have accepted nothing will change . I limit involvement.
Can uou not extricate yourself from them? There must be a way. They are a poison.
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