sorry that she did not acknowledge anniversary DadFMF. I know what that feels like, also birthday ... 'lukewarm Christmas, New Years' ... geez

You are dam right to have ignored her msgs! The intent was superficial & self serving, otherwise she would have mentioned what was important, instead of trying to get information.

What a piece of work my own was ... Whenever they are in this 'zone' whatever it is, it needs to run its course, or it will run you.

re: >> I'll just see where time and this 180 takes me. In the meantime, all I can do is carry on and move on with my life <<<
This is great ! Use the time constructively ...

Love your kids - they will be there for you. 'Distract yourself' with what benefits you, or makes you happy. We are all cheering on for you DadFMF!