Thanks Reptile. That is what my friend suggested. She is betting he didn't have a right to this and feels strongly that I missed several appointments and he got Nosey and went places he shouldn't within my file. How would I find out if he has the right to this? Call the hospital and ask?

Even if this behavior is condoned via hospital policy, I feel strongly that it should not be. I've been able to share very little in way of what has happened to me and dislike it being in a "file" to begin with. The only thing that kind of helps is knowing this is between me and the doctor I share it with. I thought they took an oath or something. My trust is shattered. I feel a complaint should be made regardless. If this is their policy, it shouldn't be.