Hey Lefty that was my thoughts as well and when I talked to mt mom the other day she said her health is the same..I feel like crap I can't help my mom One more thing about him is our dad left me and him land with a trailer and a shed . It's woodland and farmland a 3 hr drive for me 3 for him I went over once a month to keep the place up except winter he goes over a week and goes fishing or hunting with his buddies and that's it.The worst part is the e-mail he sent the next day saying maybe if I got off the cocktail of meds I could do something. He is 4 yrs older than me when we were young he used wrestle me down to the ground put his knees on my shoulders and let his drool hang down out his mouth really slow and then suck it back up sometimes it all landed on my face. yeah he is selfish hooked on himself my sister B/A universty WI works for the fed in immigration law no never a hint of thankfulness I have no family support nothing I feel like going and living under bridge they wouldn't care