Thanks Rose. The shaved part was really creepy and embarrassing and shaming. I couldn't believe he said it. It wasn't appropriate. If that was the worst of it, I would have just thought he was awkward and I too sensitive but combined with the many other strange things he told me it all added up to a very creepy and traumatizing event. Needless to say, I've requested a switch to another OB, but this sneaking into my psych records stuff is beyond comprehension. I'm so disgusted right now.

I'm glad to hear other hospitals are diligent in protecting their patients from this type of invasion of privacy. The thing is, the psych department told me I should have been protected too so I don't know exactly what is going on, but they said this should not have happened. I'm thinking they need to outsource my psych care to another facility. I just don't feel safe sharing anything there again. I'm going to try to work past it though. Hopefully they will be able to insure my privacy somehow.

Thanks for helping me move forward on this everyone and sharing your opinions, experience feelings and support.