Yeah, I am now definitely limiting my contact with her. It is just strange. She is 27, but some of her stuff mirrors what I saw from some people in high school. I ask, she gets nervous. I don't ask, she invites herself. She doesn't want me around her people, but she wants to be around my people. She enters into my personal space and wants to have a say in what I do, but calls me just a colleague.
My coworker said that when she is with him, she talks about me.... frequently. Yet, she said she was getting back with an ex. I mean, two days before that, we were alone on the couch in my house and she was cuddled inside a blanket of mine (not with me). I am not an overly jealous person, but if I were the ex that she was getting back with, I would be upset with that. To be honest, I am not even sure the ex is real. It definitely never progressed.
I just do not know why she wants my attention, but I asked her and she said no. I invite her to events and she gives weird answers, but then she displays the behavior she does. We lose contact, she seeks out my friends.
I am just worried about that vast mood swings at this point. She is one extreme to another.
Last edited by JacksonWest; Feb 14, 2017 at 01:00 PM.
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