Wow. I was just going through some of my posts and came across your reply, Dealmeout.

I read your reply before, but for some reason it is really hitting a nerve with me tonight. I have been dealing with my husband continuing to shut me out and it is seriously affecting me in a negative way. I simply cannot take it anymore. We spoke tonight via IM on the computer for the first time since last Sunday and it was maddening.

He didn't have much to say at all which hurt me so much. I cannot believe I am putting myself through this.

I am starting to do some real soul searching and contemplate my options. I think its time I give him an ultimatum......although those never work. Maybe its what we both need.