T and I don't make promises to each other. The only thing that could be seen as a promise is my safety contract with her. I have to call her before I do anything to myself (SI or SUI). If I didn't follow it, I'd feel like I was breaking a promise.

I also feel like lying is breaking a promise and vice versa. So I try my best to tell the truth. Though I do tend to lie by omission to my family. But to T, Pdoc, and fiance, I'm always open and honest.