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Originally Posted by thesnowqueen
Can't really remember if I have or not! Re. self harm, the arrangement is that I contact T before doing anything. However, the T I am seeing is new and I'm not really comfortable doing this... I have so far managed not to, but it may be something I need to discuss :/ Perhaps it would be helpful to talk about it in order to examine what led you to need to SH so much that you had to disregard the promise?
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I'm not sure if that's a good idea. What if he throws me out for it? (I'm 99% sure he wouldn't, but you never know). Breaking promises means breaking trust. I want to be reliable and I hate it if people don't trust me. What makes matters worse is that nothing happened. I just hurt myself because "I can".
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Originally Posted by captgut
He asked me not to kill myself before he pays off mortgage..of course it was a joke.
I didn't promise anyway, because I'm not sure I can keep this promise
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I hope you can... Hang in there.