Wow well done you two.
I tend to date nice guys at least for my last relationships even though they weren't perfect they weren't abusive men, they were a bit immature and not very confident. I liked to be treated like a princess to compensate from my childhood. Now that I am aware of what I asked of them. I would like in my next relationship to be loving not as demanding as before and care about my man as much as he cares about me.

I think I am aware of my behaviour because like both of you I have been for almost two years without being in a relationship. I had a few dates that I cut very quickly before any intimacy because they were not the one.