What preconceptions have you had about your T in the early days that were proven or eventually revealed to be untrue? I'm not talking about general opinions or personality disillusionment but more real-life based stuff you caught yourself assuming about them.

I assumed she had some horrible relationship with her Dad until one day she talked about him and told me about his work and such and I realized they had a good relationship. I realized was projecting my own story onto her.

I also assumed she was sober until I recently saw a picture of her at a recent event, drinking a beer. Nothing scandalous, of course, but it affected me in as much as I realized I had made a pretty bit assumption with no real evidence. I have yet to figure out where that came from.

Kinda funny that way.