I don't know why, but when I first met my T I thought he was single. I didn't see him as a family man, for some reason.
Then one time near the beginning I was too anxious to speak at all,I was feeling sick, and so he said that he would do some talking first, and he told me that he had just been to his first ever parent/teacher meeting for his daughter.
For some reason that really helped me to trust him! I think it really helped me to know a bit more about his life, apart from his psychology qualifications which I already knew.