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Old Feb 15, 2017, 07:43 PM
JacksonWest JacksonWest is offline
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Yeah.. am working on distancing myself. I think my mind wonders just because this was such a weird experience. Just never witnessed anything like it.

I have some paranoia, because I went through a really bad break up a few years ago that resulted in me changing my phone number and looking into a restraining order on the ex. Weird calls late at night... laughing on the other end and her always being around.....always... I go someplace with my friends and coworkers, she would call them every time I was around them, even though she was not friends with them. Until that one, I never had a bad dating experience. Ended things with other exes amicably and am friends with a few of them.

I see some similarities with this one. This girl seeks out my friends. My attention... Says some of the oddest, very specific things that match something I mentioned before (ie. her looking up travel information, plane tickets, hotel information and etc for Iceland, after I mentioned I was looking into going there some time and mentioning an institution that I should look at applying that is oddly close to us and one that I had mentioned to a friend in passing). So, it is hard not to differentiate the two, because this one also feels like she is always attentive to what I do. The other ex had borderline. I could research it and figure out what was going through her mind. There was something tangible there that I had that helped me with it.. This one.. no idea... Just weird.... weirdest person I have ever met. Blank stare when you crack a joke, would act confused why I invited her to things, but then invite herself to things she wasn't invited to. I don't know... At least I have almost all of my coworkers, colleagues and friends on my side. They all think she is weird. One tries to defend her (even though she thinks she is odd too), but they all said she is crazy.

I still call bs on her emailing me about work....out of the blue, when we never talk about work and I had not invited her to anything in a while.