View Single Post
 
Old Feb 16, 2017, 12:41 AM
MessyD MessyD is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2017
Location: Here
Posts: 394
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sky_ View Post
Yes, that could apply to me too. my problem is I'm not really sure what most people would consider appropriate in each social context.
I'm not able to keep relationship at "small talk level".
My small talk often leads to excessive exposure actually [emoji1] but I agree that it could just be my wrong perception
I wasn't saying it was a wrong perception , maybe you're just not used to share a lot. From what you said it seemed a lot like me so was just assuming. i soo don't like small talks, i am weird and quiet so when I do talk to people I don't like to waste my words on nothing and I might say things I didn't really wanted them to know. So when I share I tend to feel horrible but then I remember things other people share with random people that I wouldn't even with people close to me. I'm thinking that maybe we have a hard time opening up and are keeping it all in, but then the time comes when we just need to get it out and we might not have the right person and end up exposing excessively to someone who we later doesn't really want to know. I don't know, maybe that's how you're supposed to be connected I'm just really bad at that, talking to people, even online ... I guess I just shared to much