I was listening to a fellow talk about his marital troubles last night. I now exactly what is a big contributor to them and could have grabbed him by the shoulders and told him to stop. I realize this behaviour is an addiction but he needs to get his head out of the sand.

But I held my tongue. It was a group situation. I don't know him very well (I at least am not part of his problem but I can point to virtually every other woman there as being such). Is it really my battle anyway?