Do you think it's healthy for a person to feel anger, bad moodiness, sadness, annoyance and a whole host of other negative emotions and feelings that gets worse and worse around or when dealing with a certain person (like a family member) ?

Said person perhaps being someone who has been verbally abusive in the past on many occasions, felt a lot of self pity for themselves whilst having said basically that you were wrong to be depressed (I was depressed about something in my own life for a while but never sat about moping and whining about it) because your problems weren't very big compared, and having been extremely temperamental and overly-controlling and clingy in the past as well as now still sometimes

I don't act on it or anything but for the vast majority of the time I don't particularly like being around this person and when aggravated by said person quite often I feel like I'm slowly but surely losing it inside and need to just get as far away from them as possible

What to do and anyone had any experiences like this ?