Thank you all again. I will answer your guys questions:

Financially, the only thing I am paying her is what the military is making me pay her. I'm not going to say the exact price, but it's pretty much child support. She does have medical insurance through the military since she is married to me that basically doesn't come out of my pocket. She pays for her own phone, car insurance ect as I took her off my plans. We didn't buy a house and she pays for her own vehicle, so there is nothing binding us together in that aspect

Her Personality: as far as this is concerned, the way she has been treating me the last month I never experienced this the whole 10 years we been together. She used to be such a sweet and genuinely nice person. She changed when I came back. She started hanging out with a few people that I did not agree with who showed her the "Single Life" while I deployed. Probably told her things she wanted to hear and to get rid of me. Basically talking her head up. She just has this cocky, I don't care attitude. Her mom keeps telling me deep down she is miserable and let her make stupid decisions. Just keep praying about it.

legally, I already had legal consultations for my rights. Again, I'm holding off for a few reasons but I am seriously questioning on what I should do. I know the answer a lot of people have is "Get rid of her, divorce he" and I know that's the easy way out to move on, but I'm going to wait a little longer to see if she does have a come to God moment that everything isn't what it seems to be on the other side. It might not ever happen, but I don't want to live with regrets later on. Either way you have to be separated a year in this state, so there is no huge rush.

As far as my kids, I see them all the time, so there is no issues with that. During drop off and pick up, we don't speak or anything. We still haven't talked in person (One on One mature conversation). We have a schedule so that's good. It avoids unwanted arguments as