Transference isn't so much an "issue" as what naturally happens. We have to learn to see it too so we can be aware of it in the rest of our lives. Everyone sometimes gets "reminded" of others in their lives and reacts to the person in front of them with "old" reactions because they remind them of someone in their past. It's not bad or anything, just something one wants to be aware of so one can adjust to responding to the actual person in front of one instead of the old "memory" of a different person.
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