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my adoptive mother has been like this ever since i can remember and its been getting worse now that my blood brother has been gone all these years so she cant make his life hell because obviously he isnt here.
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It is difficult to perceive that your problem is not your "adobtive mother" but the treatment, abandonment or loss of your early childhood mother, mentor or carer.
Even before psychology was developed it was known from fairy tales how wicked the Evil step mother could. However the actual problems of mental illness depression and criminality was caused by the loss of abandonment and ill treatment of of by the biological mother.
Today, most of night terrors and bad dreams in children are caused by fear of abandonment or loosing the mother figure.
Your best option is to have a heart to heart talk with your adoptive mother and learn something about the reasons why you needed to have one.