I would be cautious also about the statement "I love you" so early in teh relationship. I was in that kindof relationship where the man was almost telling me I was to be his next partner in teh first email he sent me. He was very forward. I spoke to a Psych professor about this person and he said this was a "love addict."
They tend to jump in with both feet but can also be manipulative if the love they feel is not returned. They can seem very generous, as this man was. It seemed like this man just gave and gave. The problem was that he could not control his impulses and soon he was without anything and he blamed it on the woman he was trying to woo (ME).
My advice....approach with caution and prepare for lots of woonig and flattery. If it seems overwhelming or your instinct is not good....tell that person what pace you feel most comfortable with. If they can't wait.....walk away.
But only you know the situation. My opinion is from hindsight of my own relationship.
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