We're going to husband's Ex's house in a next door state, I guess 2 to 2-1/2 hour drive. Husband and Ex have been e-mailing and there's been vague thoughts that I could bring veggies and dip for appetizer but nothing positive. I may just get one of those at the grocery store Weds or something.

Husband's Ex won a ham from a radio station promotion, she was caller number X and then her sister was given a turkey that a guy she's dating was given at his work (and apparently he's coming to dinner too? but he is single so didn't have any wherewithal to cook it) so we're having "free" ham and turkey :-)