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Originally Posted by Gojamadar
Hi,
It is difficult to perceive that your problem is not your "adobtive mother" but the treatment, abandonment or loss of your early childhood mother, mentor or carer.
Even before psychology was developed it was known from fairy tales how wicked the Evil step mother could. However the actual problems of mental illness depression and criminality was caused by the loss of abandonment and ill treatment of of by the biological mother.
Today, most of night terrors and bad dreams in children are caused by fear of abandonment or loosing the mother figure.
Your best option is to have a heart to heart talk with your adoptive mother and learn something about the reasons why you needed to have one.
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Yes I think having a heart to heart talk with my mom would be the best thing but i dont know how to approach her. She'll act like nothing is wrong and stuff... Last time i tried to open my feelings to her she rejected me and told me she didnt care. I dont understand.
Oh and I dont really have any hate to my biological parents wherever they are... Well maybe my dad yes, because from what I've heard he wasnt a nice guy. I can see from my brother how he probably was abusive and angry. But that's not the point. I was too young to be mad or remember them. So i dont hate them.