I mean processing different types of abuses. Different abusers different abuses etc. Different manipulations, different trauma responses. Stuff like that.
My current T is EMDR trained, and we are working to reduce trauma symptoms rather than talking about the abuse. In EMDR therapy it isn't necessary to speak about the traumatic events in order to heal them. Although can if you want to. We were in long term therapy before and I don't think we ever 'talked' about specific abuses, although ex T seems to think we did.