I am sorry things are tough right now. You have raised a valid point. Yes, it seems so many fall through the cracks. Part of the problem though is that a lot of the time people are just not aware that one exists. How many of us put on a brave face and soldier on until it becomes that crisis situation. I myself hid things very well. Thank goodness I recognised myself that there was a problem and got help. But my point is that this doesn't always happen.

Bye the way, you seem to be angry lately and that has me concerned. I am glad though you are reaching out to us here. I am just wondering how you are coping these days and what kind(s) of outlets you have. Do you yourself have someone to turn to should you reach your own crisis point? I believe we should always have a plan for such a cese.