My last session with ex t was very upsetting and distressing and I seen a side to her that was very frightening. She has a whole side to her that was very wounding to me. She said some stuff that should never be said to any client, stuff that I couldn't just ignore any longer. She really tried to damage me and then made herself look like the victim. I obviously triggered her insecurities and my god did she let them explode into me. I said I never meant to hurt her to make her feel better and she reached out for both my hands and I hugged her very tightly because I knew she needed it. She realised she went too far and I would never go back to her! It was really scary and disorientating