You didn't offend me at all, Open Eyes. I appreciate any and all points of view for anything I post.

I've done my utmost to read as much possible on her challenge and how to help in any way I can when she's stressed. I do need to ask her directly on how best to communicate with her when she is overwhelmed.

I also purchased a book titled "Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder" that had many positive reviews.