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Originally Posted by Mr. Stranger
I wouldn't message her. She obviously said no. You liked her, but she didn't reciprocate. It doesn't say anything about you. She is just disinterested. My suggestion is to move on. More messages would probably make her feel uncomfortable. Yes staring is not something people like, especially females from males, but I think it's not enough to reject someone. This is my opinion. You can try if you want. In either case. Good luck
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Thanks stranger for your practical good reply.
I am fully aware of what you have mentioned, she said no, so subject is closed. Just posted the topic here to see point of views other than mine.
The problem is that I am in a closed society, don't know many people to find a soul mate easily, I am almost at the mid of 30s.
Never liked the arranged marriage meetings, never felt comfortable with it, two strangers meet to see if they suit each others in a couple of hours meeting, you feel like you are making a deal not a long term relationship, this girl I liked so much which was rarely happens for me in such meetings.
And because of my difficult situation, I hold on to any ray of a hope, I will not really like to live and die alone.
I am not pessimistic, but sometimes I am practical and I know well that the trial will not bring me more than another hurt.
Thanks a lot again for your opinion and feedback.