Thanks, I was kinda hoping someone would explain it to me..
Maybe it's partly about not having closed the door on any and all abusers at the first sign of abuse
But as a child, of course, that wasn't possible

It would also mean walking out on any medic irl at the first sign of disrespect

I would do this now... but that's assuming there are some medics who are respectful

(I live in the uk)