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Originally Posted by crimsoncat
I think i feel love but i can't show love very easily and often not at all in traditional ways, i tend to enjoy cooking for people i care about and stuff like that , i find it hard to say those 3 words and often don't know if i mean them but deep down i know i don't ever want my h to not be there !!!! So that's as clear as mud lol.
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I wouldn't say it's clear as mud... Maybe clear as dirty water, but not mud. lol
I only ask you because it kind of helps me understand what my gf and how she responds to me.
She too does things in the non-traditional sense to show affection with cooking or doing something for me with getting things for my bedroom and such. Perhaps that's why the posts online tell people to read through the lines when you love someone with BPD. It isn't just for finding the trigger and ways to calm one down, but to maybe even find how they're showing you they love you.