I have a huge crush on a girl at my grocery store, and after a couple months of seeing her and seeing signs that she may like me back, today I made my move. I got her a card with two cups of coffee on the front and on the inside I wrote, "Coffee, my treat?" with my name and number. I've never pursued a woman before because I've never been able to read the signs very well, and I have no idea if this girl is gay, but from the interactions I've had with her I thought I could at least get to know her over a cup of coffee. Well, I've had this card in my purse for a month, and I'd find any excuse to go to the grocery store to see her, always disappointed when she isn't there. I've waited until I was fairly sure it was the right time with the times she is there, and today she had asked me if I had facebook or instagram. I gave her the card and she gave me a big hug, and then I left so she could open it. I was shaking from head to toe, and my heart was pounding as I gave her the card. I've never felt this way about anyone, and she may not even share the same feelings or even be gay! But I just have an inkling, a sliver of hope, with the way we interact when we see each other it is similar to bestfriendship with a hint of flirtation. Today she even noticed I recently had a haircut (I hardly took anything off!) and that my choker was cute. She's always excited when she sees me (and I the same). I really, really hope she feels the same way I feel about her!

She Keeps Me Warm (the song and music video is how I feel about her):