Hello Shellbe,
I don't know if you remember me from Chat but you are amongst friends here.
It is real hard when one of the adult-parts disappears, I know, this happens to me at times. I find it helps to try to keep stress to a minimum and find something that the adult-part likes to do. Hope this makes sense.
I'm glad you are here, PM me anytime.
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