My husband is on medication, but I personally don't think its the right kind for him or at least its not enough. He takes Lexapro for depression and Lamictal for mania.

I have thought about contacting his therapist or psychiatrist but legally they have to tell him that I contacted them and my husband would flip his lid if I did that. A few months ago I asked if I could join him in a therapy session and he said, "NO, its my therapy, not yours!". So, theres no way thats going to happen.

He is so fragile right now that I am afraid of rocking the boat in any way. I am desperately trying to save our marriage and it looks like the only way I am going to have any chance at doing that is to just leave him alone. I simply don't know what else to do.