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Originally Posted by YOLO Lady
I love receiving oral sex but often times I can't enjoy it because I feel that the guy can't possibly really be enjoying my ***** and it's wetness. I worry that he thinks that it's gross and that he's tired and doesn't want to do it. Because of this, I can't cum. I'm thinking of telling him about all of this so that maybe he can act like he really likes what he's doing and then I'd cum big-time! Can any women relate? Guys, what do you think about this?
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As an abuse survivor / lesbian there was a point in my life where I had this problem occasionally. what worked for me was using flavored lubes and favorite "toppings" and getting creative. this not only changed my views on what down there smelled and tasted like but also added quite a twist, variety and heightened enjoyment to my and my partners sex life. now that I am married to the most wonderful woman we both still enjoy spicing up our sex life in many different ways.