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Originally Posted by Mr. Stranger
Interesting! I have problems doing things. People suggest many things to do, but the fear of doing them is greater than the willingness/energy to do most of the things. I also see no purpose in doing them, which is another factor why I don't do things. What does make you do things? I'm curious.
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I had a bit of a think over how best to explain the way I feel about sharing the activities I enjoy.
The activities I do are ones I enjoy alone anyway, they are my 'thing'. One is sport and the other is music - those two things are important parts of my life. Although I am not an outgoing person I like meeting others and sharing the same passions.
So I suppose the answer to your question '
What does make you do things?' is that the activities themselves are the driver, I feel better for doing them and look forward to when I can do them.
Hope that makes some sort of sense.
PS - the first time I went along to both my activity groups I was very nervous, it was the desire to enjoy the activity and the fact I did then enjoy the activity once I got over my nerves. I still do get a little tongue tied sometimes, and I'll never be the most talkative person, but the nerves are less with time.