While the honeymoon may be over, think about the good things.
Better yet, what do you want out of this?
This part really sticks out to me...
"We just never know what to talk about with each other, i never feel excited about seeing him, most of the time neither of us are in the mood to have sex and i just feel like generally the relationship has gotten really boring and that we have started taking each other for granted. It seems like he's more interested in his friends too and we've started arguing a lot more with each other and then because of all this I've been feeling like i'm drifting away from him."
I've been there. Usually this stuff is one-sided, and I'm glad yours isn't.
Relationships are hard, and after a while they do indeed wane. Ups and downs come with it. But don't lose yourself because you guys aren't getting along now.
Do you have any interests? Have some girlfriends you can hang with?
Most of all, listen to your heart and gut instincts. If you feel as though it might be time to move on, then do it.
If not, work through this with him.
But from what I read, reality has set in. And that's normal.
You guys need to talk to each other. Be kind, and look into his eyes. Is he what you want?
I wish you the best and I hope things work out for you.
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