Not to say I don't have some faults.. But, in this case, she never gave me the opportunity to communicate and it just turned weird and now scary.

She never treated me properly or well. I am always the one that gets walked on in a relationship, so nothing necessarily new with this friendship. (Yes, I need to work on this) The beginning seemed like an unnecessary game of chase. I had 8 coworkers/friends that saw our interaction and all of them said she was giving me signs....until I asked her out. They, they said the same thing (she was giving signs) when we were supposed to be hanging out as friends. One coworker went further with it and said she was acting completely inappropriate toward me no matter what she labeled me. I just never got the chance to ask her because she would shy away.... until I confronted her..

I think it is a game still... Which is why I think she will keep it going. I really just want it to end. Trying to find new places to go out of town to get away that she does not know about. May end up not inviting my coworker that reaches out to her, just to make sure she doesn't invite her around the group.