It wasn't always so simple for me, I tried a few groups/activities before I found the right fit for me. Those activities were also things I really enjoyed but for some reason I did not 'click' with those groups of people.

Thinking about that time in my life I can see now that it just wasn't the right fit for me but at the time I felt hopeless - I felt like there was something wrong with me and I couldn't fit anywhere. It actually took courage to stop trying with those groups and seek out different opportunities, because I felt it was me and nothing I would do would work, that I was fundamentally flawed and a misfit. Sounds kind of dramatic now but that was how I felt back then.

Maybe Starrysky and Mr Stranger you just haven't found the right fit for you just yet, but I hope you will keep trying different things - it can take experimentation to get this. Never give up!