I know I need to let it go.... just some fear that is based off of a really bad situation I had before (which led to me collecting receipts and phone calls from an ex and coming close to a restraining order against her. that one was also a pathological liar... wanted to get me one on one, then tell lies about what we had said. the girl stole my thesis topic in graduate school). So, i cannot explain this girl at all and why she just appears at different times and it freaks me out because the behavior change was so drastic (like the ex). I have caught this one in lies as well...i.e. telling her coworkers that I am inviting her to things when I am not and she invited herself. I am trying to work past that part of things. I know it is weird... All of my past relationships except one has resulted in me still being on friendly terms with my exes. I have a few ex's that I still communicate with fairly regularly. So, statistically speaking, the odds have been much greater that I have had good experiences in that department. But, the bad one tends to stay more in your mind and now I see some similarities on behavior with this one, even though I never dated, so my mind wonders. What sucks, is my friend wanted to set me up with somebody... That seemed sweet..cute... trustworthy... Just not in a place to trust right now or get involved.