I have been dealing with this for many many years....he never calls to say that he will be home late...he sees no problem with this...we all know it is wrong...and there is no language barrier between us....and if I should call or text to make sure everything is ok (way back we used to make plans and he would not show up) he would respond mean and nasty and basically tell me it is none of my business...and that is there was an actual problem he is sure that I would be notified....I am hoping in your case that this is just a cultural difference and things will change for you for the better.