I missed that she already had her LPN. I had read that dhe was a house wife & now going ro school....so thats why I was wondering how mych REAL support she actually fealt for her current goal. I just remembered how much I had to FIGHT to keep on working toward my computer engineering degree after I was married & ended up pregnant. His comment thstI could just stay home & go back to school when our child was older was a deal breaker because I went into the marriage with it KNOWN....NOTHING gets in the way of MY DEGREE!!! He was totally oblivious to what I said let alone my needs which was why I brought up that possibility.

Sounds like thete is definitely a lack of communication going on & maybe she isnt sure how to express what she is feeling.

I knowwhen I was seriously frustrated about not being heard or supported it came out as major ANGER toward my H. The source of anger isnt always what we assume it to be. My H was totally oblivioys to any emotional connection....a whole other set of reasons why that I didnt figure out until after leaving several years gone.

So is she using yoyr GI bill for her education now? You realuze if she has been a housewife yoyr married years you will probably have to come up with the $ for her education in the divorce. Sometimes its better to let things play themselves out then take action if needed when the big picture is finalized.

It is definitely HARDEST on the kids...divorce is also...really no good solution when it comes to a marriage break up. Truly hope when she gets finished with her RN degree that she will settle into a career & be happuer with her life & find that her marriage is really where she wants to be.